Frequently  asked  Questions

We tried to send out our invitations as soon as we could so everyone could make plans accordingly, but you don’t need to RSVP right away! Since we need to coordinate with our team in Ireland, we do ask that guests RSVP no later than February 1, 2026.

Yes, we want everyone to have a great time and celebrate, so we will have an open bar through midnight! After midnight, the bar will convert to a cash bar for those of us still going strong. Please keep in mind that several drinks will be provided during the drinks reception before dinner and throughout the dinner.

Due to limited space, please do not bring a child or plus one unless they are explicitly included in your invitation. If you’d like to apply for an additional guest not included on your invitation, you may submit one PowerPoint of at least 20 slides describing this additional person, their significance to you, and how fun they are at parties.

The ceremony and reception will be indoors with a combined indoor/outdoor drinks reception weather permitting.

Black Tie Formal/Red Carpet

We chose this dress code because it we wanted everyone to wear something fun and fancy! Also, there will literally be a red carpet leading into the castle. We truly don’t care about a strict dress code, so don’t worry if you’d prefer to wear something more comfortable, but no white/off white/very light yellow/almost white outfits please!

Here are some general guidelines/suggestions
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For dresses: floor/ankle length, can have slit on side; feel free to show some leg since it will be warm outside!
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For jumpsuits: floor length/ankle, can be short sleeve/no sleeve
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For suits: any kind of nice or fun suit with a suit jacket works! Doesn’t have to be a tux, but up to you! Tie optional.

Yes, please let us know when submitting your RSVP. Our venue should be able to accommodate all dietary restrictions with advance notice.

After much consideration, Sean has decided that he prefers to keep his original name due to its personal and sentimental value to him. Madison generously supports him in this decision.